I wish you would expound further on this.  You say that you get what you truly want, but I'm currently in the midst of a divorce from a man that I adored.  While yes, I'm probably much better off without him (he was unfaithful, very controlling, and not honest with me), I loved him very much and did not want this divorce.  Now, however, with everything I've learned, I can't stay, even though I still love him for the man he was when we married.

I'm not happy right now.  I'm trying, but I feel lost.  How did I ask for this, and what did I want?

Lili (Chinle, AZ, USA)
 

You will always benefit from allowing your love to flow.  When you feel pain from a relationship, there is obviously conflict for you.  It is not necessary to endure pain to have any relationship.  When this occurs, you are simply not in alignment with the person involved.  You can still love and do so unconditionally without hurting.  You can love this person and allow them in your heart without allowing them in your house or your car or your life at all.  You can choose the boundaries for yourself.  You choose.  Remember that you are creating it all, on the earthly level as well as the level of your soul’s intention.  Continue to love and love with your amazing ability to love unconditionally.  Just keep in mind that you are the creator of your own boundaries as well..

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