There are many disappointments while in human form..

And, those disappointments can be very challenging.  They will continue until you learn from them.  We are not asking that you be devoid of emotion.  We are asking that you use your emotions.  Use that amazing emotional magnetizing system of yours to produce what you want.  What you really want.  As long as you are not experiencing what you want, you are either not knowing what that would be, not aware of how to bring it about, or fearful that you cannot do it. 

Which is it??