Hi Mark and Karla,

My question is, what can I do when I see someone else hurting?  How can I best help with healing, especially when they may be hurting because of their family? 

Thanks,
Dawn (Cincinnati, OH)

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We see that this situation causes pain for you as you witness another's suffering.  Keep in mind that showing your love and support, using your kind words is just what you need to do.  Your love alone is healing.  It is their path to resolve the situation, or not.  They can easily choose when they have had enough. 

Situations between family members were set up in order to grow.  When this person can look at the one who seems to aggravate, causing pain, and say, "thank you for this experience," that individual will be free from the bondage of that vibration.  It will be a release of the pain and the situation will no longer exist because it is no longer allowed. 

Believe it or not, the person that is in conflict was chosen to assist in the healing by representing issues they both agreed to learn from.  They chose this before coming into body.  Lovingly, they made the decision [contract] to be a part of this incantation and this is one of many choices made to grow and expand.  You can remind them that it is all done with love.  Even if it doesn't feel like love at the time. 

When there is finally resolution, there will be a party on the other side.  As you grow from these experiences, we all grow and the more you are actually embracing the real you.  You can support your loved one by your love and kind words of support.  Your understanding the process and love is what you can offer..