Challenge yourself..

Make decisions based on where you want to be instead of focusing on all the reasons you aren't there yet.  You are where you are for reasons within your own control.  You are who you are for all the same reasons.  Every moment of every day, you have the innate ability to change.  You can choose.  Begin to move in the direction of what you want.  Make the effort and embrace the whole of who you are. 

Allow that ever so special you to emerge, more and more..