Just ask.  Simply ask out loud, write it down, ask in meditation, as a purposeful question with clear intention that you be answered in some way.  Ask for your guidance to be more obvious.  Ask for what it is you want to see in your life.  Ask and expect to be answered.  Ask when you are able to take responsibility for the answers that will come.  Take time to ask.  Take time to listen.  Take time to love yourself this way.  Ask for your guidance to be part of your life.  We will always hear you and the Universe will always answer.  Getting yourself to a place that you can receive is the journey.  Open yourself to your love by realizing you have all you need; all you have to do is ask to experience it.  Make the simple choice to be open to the answers when they come because once you ask, they will certainly come..