Recognizing that you are the creator of it all..

Keep in mind that everything you anticipate from another, or yourself, are your expectations.  You might as well call this your intentions, for if you expect it, you are actually intending for it.  So choose to look at everything you want to see as proof of your creative existence.  Choose to see what you really want and quit tricking yourself with ideas that others are mucking it up for you.  You are the creator, the talent and the producer. 

Others are just showing up to help you out..