We would suggest you reflect on your actions..

Those who choose to take action against another are truly angry and frustrated with themselves.  They just know no other release than to strike out at that which mirrors their own feelings and beliefs. 

When you begin to forgive yourselves, you can begin to heal.  Healing is all about the real awakening of your soul and the true opening of the Inner Self.  That is the voice inside that has a whole different perspective.  Sometimes, you have to allow the person you think of as you to step aside.  The real you is in there.  It’s OK.  You can allow that heart of yours to show you the realness of you. 

It’s just fear that keeps you from knowing you..