I have a question, and I'm going to make it as general as possible, so it can apply to many people...

In my work as a life coach, and in my work on myself... I've noticed that I and others have central issues that seem to manifest throughout life.  For me, it's the issue of not feeling good enough... or worthlessness.  I feel that I have tried almost everything to heal myself of this central issue... coaching, therapy, energy healing, trans generational healing, angel therapy, meditation, prayer, on and on... and yet the basic belief that "I'm not enough and I never will be" pervades.  I watch friends and clients do the same thing... work through the problems created by the core issue, only to have another core issue-inspired problem pop up a day or two later... the same problems, year after year after year.

My questions are, is there an easier way and how do I do it?  and how do i help others do it?  Is there some purpose in all this struggle?  Would I be 'cheating' myself somehow to skip the struggle and live a life without the core debilitating issue?

If it had to be summed into one question, "Can you share with me an easier way to heal my core issues and live an easier, fulfilling life?"

Any insights are welcome...

Thank you!

All my best!
Heather (Charlotte, NC, USA)

[Jovius]
 

This all points to issues around self love and forgiveness.  When you can forgive yourself, you can find more joy.  It is the fact that your societies and religious instructions have created guilt and unworthiness for you.  Look at each and every culture and you will see the sameness of this disease of human beings.  You will find, however that those who live the simplest and least materialistic appear to have more joy.  Those who have learned to live with nature and you will see their peers appear to have found more to live for than those who pride themselves on what they have accomplished, as far as the material abundance they think they need.  We can suggest that you look into yourselves instead of outside of yourself, for value and acceptance.  You really do have the answers and the way to get there is through you, not something outside yourselves.  Living in a physical reality is complex and quite challenging, but also very valuable to all that is.  You are joy seekers.  It is safe for you to seek your joy.  Look to that which makes you smile as often as possible.  Look to what takes your pain away and you will experience more of that..

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