What you are judging, as a fault in another, is a view of their fear..

This fear is recognized by you because you share it with this person, or you have overcome it and still remember what it looks like.  What one mirrors to you is what you are in possession of inside yourself.  This is the way of the light.  You see so you can grow and continue on your path.  On that path, you encounter others who are there to assist you.  Your teachers appear, so to speak.  Thank them, forgive them and yourself. 

You take on many lessons and are very loved..