Every encounter you have with another is an encounter with some form of yourself..

You are divinely guided to those who can assist you in your learning experiences.  It is for you to sometimes learn with joy and sometimes learn with pain.  It is just as easy to bring your lessons through joy. 

Your lessons are just that, lessons.  Once you get it and own it, you can move forward.  Enlist those who can assist you on your journey, even with pain show your gratitude. 

With gratitude you can move forward much quicker and with more ease..