Fighting against creates an imbalance to what it is you want..

By fighting against anything, you can actually create the opposite.  Whatever you are fighting, you are actually building up it's vibration in your reality.  If what you want is the opposite of what you have, start putting your focus where you want to go.  If you are passionate about fighting, then simply accept the fact that you like the fight.  But, the end result may not at all be what it is you really want.  It would be beneficial to ask yourself and meditate for clarity around anything you find yourself fighting against 

Fighting creates resistance..