Jovius,

What if you enjoy separateness TOO much and you prefer your own company to others?

Nancy (Cincinnati, OH, USA)

[Jovius]

We would say that if you find yourself to be completely joyful when you are without the company of others then you have found true happiness and self love.  If you are in the company of yourself and are doing so to avoid what others may possibly mirror to you, then you have separated yourself.  Separateness is not expansion.  Choosing to be separate is simply a choice.  There are no wrong or right choices..