When you want change, you have to do the changing..

It’s up to you.  Start with something you know you have control over.  Change that is forced upon you is far more challenging, so you should decide what should change.  You choose.  You might find it easiest to start with something physical that you can see.  Pick something that is pleasurable.  Change your hair, or your thoughts.  You know that you want something different.  Create! 

You are in the driver’s seat..